The date with Mr. Coffee

Som bekendt ringede Mr. Coffee jo til mig efter mit meget dræstiske move i kaffebutikken 😉 Selvom jeg nok ikke er det mest charmerende menneske når jeg endnu ikke har fået min morgenkaffe, gjorde jeg åbenbart indtryk alligevel 🙂 Jeg panikkede virkelig meget, for selvom jeg havde været modig og fuld af selvtillid, så vidste jeg også godt, at det nok mere var i øjeblikket, at jeg synes det var en fantastisk idé. Men jeg havde alligevel sommerfugle i maven ved tanken om en egentlig date, og ja det næste var jo så hvad jeg skulle have på!! Efter at have tømt hele mit skab og prøvede samtlige kombinationer af outfits, gik jeg med det sikre valg, min stramme sorte kjole og stiletter 😉

Til at starte med var det lidt akavet, men som aftenen skred frem, tror jeg lidt vi glemte hvordan vi havde mødt hinanden, og så var det faktisk ret hyggeligt. Det viste sig at han læste jura på CBS og var halv italiener (déjà-vu anyone?). Vi havde nogle hyggelige dates efterfølgende, og selvom at han kyssede ret godt blev aldrig rigtig til mere ;). Da han skulle ud og rejse i nogle uger, døde kontakten lidt, så jeg har ikke hørt fra ham siden. Jeg ved ikke om det skræmte mig lidt at han havde italiensk blod i årerne (dumt ikke?) Men hvem ved? Det kan være at jeg ser ham igen en dag når desperat craver koffein 😉

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As you know, Mr. Coffee ended up calling me after my dramatic move in the coffee shop 😉 I might not be the most charming person alive when I haven’t had my morning coffee yet, put apparently I made an impression on him :). I sort of panicked after the call, because even though I had been so brave and confident back at the coffee shop, I knew that it was mostly due to the heat of the moment. I still had butterflies in my stomach though, I was just really nervous. After emptying my closet completely, and trying on all possible combinations of outfits, I finally went with my little black dress and heels 😉 Classic.

In the beginning, it was kind of awkward, but as time passed by, we both forget how we ended up on the date. And when my nerves finally started coming down, we had a good time together. I turned out that he studies law at CBS and was half Italian (déjà-vu anyone?). Vi has some pretty good dates afterwards, and even though he was quite the kisser, it never led to more 😉 When he was gone for a few weeks on vacation, we stopped texting each other and it just sort faded. I haven’t heard from him since. I don’t really know, but I think it actually scared me that he ha Italian blood in his veins (silly isn’t it?) But who knows? Maybe I’ll meet him again while craving my morning shot of caffeine 😉

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The Sir Marriage Saga pt. II: The mousse

 

Ret hurtigt efter G’s fest, bliver jeg inviteret hen til Sir Marriage, fordi han har snakket så meget om, hvor god han er til at lave chokolademousse. Jeg synes det var vildt sødt, fordi det da var en ret god undskyldning for at ville se mig. Desuden er chokolade jo SÅ meget vejen til en piges hjerte 😉

Anyways, jeg kommer hen til ham, og hans chokolademousse er da egentlig okay, men det var sådan set mere for at se ham og snakke med ham, at jeg tog derhen. Vi hyggede os rigtig meget og endte da også med at ligge og putte. Han blev ved med at sige, at han ikke forstod, hvorfor jeg gad se ham og hvorfor jeg dog kyssede med ham til G’s fest. Han mente åbenbart, at jeg var vildt meget over hans niveau, hvilket jeg var ret ligeglad med. Jeg var ved at blive temmelig vild med ham, og så var jeg sådan set ligeglad med, om han synes jeg var over hans niveau eller ej 😉

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Pretty soon after G’s party, Sir Marriage invited me over to have some homemade chocolate mousse because he had bragged about how good he was at making it. I thought it was kind of sweet because it was a pretty good excuse to see me in private. And let’s face it, chocolate IS a good way to win a girl’s heart 😉

Anyway, I came over to him, and his chocolate mousse was all right, but really I just wanted to see him and talk to him. We had a very good time and we did end up cuddling on the couch. He kept saying he didn’t understand why I wanted to see him and why I even kissed him at G’s party. Apparently he thought I was way over his level, which I didn’t care about at all. I was getting kind of crazy about him, whether I was above his level or not 😉

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Meeting Sir Marriage

 

Den måde jeg mødte min noget forvirrende flirt på (læs om ham her) var til en temafest hos G. Jeg kom en smule for sent, som sædvanlig, og allerede da jeg træder ind i festlokalet, begynder vi at småflirte lidt med øjenkontakt og små smil.
Meget hurtigt finder M og en af mine nære venner ud af, at jeg og Sir Marriage (grunden til navnet kommer senere ;)) skal hookes op. Det er sådan set alt sammen meget godt, for jeg synes han virkede vildt sød, og han var også meget pæn med sit mørke hår, og så han var i øvrigt langt over den kritiske højde.
I starten er jeg dog noget tøvende, for jeg har faktisk en date dagen efter den her fest. Med en fyr jeg havde mødt i byen lidt tidligere. Meget forvirrende, I know 😉 Men altså, jeg bliver alligevel overtalt, for når man ikke engang har været på sin første date endnu, så må man vel godt, ikke? 😉 Jeg husker tydeligt, at M blev mere og mere insisterende, så jeg til sidst ikke måtte snakke med hende længere, for som hun sagde: “Mindre snak, mere snav med [Sir Marriage]“, hvilket ender med at han og jeg kysser resten af aftenen. Jeg måtte jo åbenbart ikke snakke med M længere, så kunne jeg lige så godt lave noget andet sjovt, ikke? 😉
De næste par dage er jeg lidt forvirret over, hvorvidt jeg egentlig ville noget mere med ham, men vi skriver ret meget sammen, og jeg bliver mere og mere varm på ideen. Ham min anden date blev heller ikke til noget, men jeg var ret ligeglad, for jeg gik rundt og var egentlig lidt vild med ham her Sir Marriage. Så jeg var ret glad. Indtil videre…

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I met my confusing flirt (read about him here) at a theme party at G’s. I was a little late as usual and we began flirting with eye contact and small smiles almost as soon as I stepped into the room.
M and one of my very close friends very quickly finds out that Sir Marriage and I (the name will be explained later on) will have to hook up. That was all good because I thought he was really cute, funny and I liked his dark hair and he was even way over the critical height.
In the beginning I held back, though, because I actually had a date the next day. With a guy I had met in the city a week or so back. However, I was persuaded to hook up with Sir Marriage anyway. If you haven’t been on the first date with someone yet, it is okay, right? 😉
I remember our good friend M becoming more and more insisting on this hook-up and in the end she just said: “Less talking, more kissing with 
[Sir Marriage]“, which makes me kiss the guy and keep doing so until the night was over. If I wasn’t allowed to talk to M or my other friends, I might as well do something fun, right?
The next couple of days went by with me not knowing if I wanted anything more to do with Sir Marriage. We were texting a lot and I actually grow warmer on the idea. The other date fell through but I kind of didn’t care. I was actually getting more and more into Sir Marriage-guy. So I was pretty happy. For now…

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Rebounds

 

Jeg har aldrig rigtig forstået meningen med rebounds. Eller behovet for dem for den sags skyld. Dét var indtil jeg endte i seng med Sir Ken – Jeg havde nemlig for nylig haft noget at kørende med en fyr, og det var den mest frustrerende og forvirrende oplevelse, jeg længe havde haft. Efter min aften med Sir Ken, kunne jeg mærke, at jeg var totalt ovre det. Sådan virkelig! Så meget, at da jeg et par dage efter opdagede, at min forvirrende flirt var blevet kærester med en eller anden pige, var jeg fuldstændig ligeglad. Jeg grinte bare en smule indeni, men jeg kunne sagtens mærke, at jeg ikke havde haft det på samme måde, hvis jeg ikke liiiiige havde knaldet én inden det skete 😉

Historien om min noget frustrerende oplevelse får I på et tidspunkt – Den er så underlig! Fyre kan altså være de mærkeligste nogle gange …

Hvad siger I? Er rebounds nødvendige for Jer, før I kan komme videre efter en fyr?

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I never really understood the meaning of rebounds. Or the need for them, anyways. That was until I slept with Sir Ken – Just before that I had a flirt going with a guy and it was the most frustrating and confusing experience I’ve had in a long time. After my night with Sir Ken, I could feel that I was over it. Really! So much that I didn’t care one bit when that same flirt got a girlfriend few days afterwards. Actually I laughed a little bit inside myself but I could feel that I would feel a lot different if I hadn’t slept with someone before it happened 😉

The story of my confusing flirt will be told some other time – And trust me it is the weirdest thing! Guys can be so strange sometimes …

What do you say? Do you feel the need to sleep with someone before you can move on from a guy?

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The Call from Mr. Coffee


Skal på date på Lørdag med Mr. Coffee!! Han ringede i dag og spurgte om jeg ville spise middag med ham i weekenden. I får selvfølgelig en lille update på Søndag 😉 Er allerede lidt i panik… Hvad skal jeg tage på??
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I have a date this Saturday with Mr. Coffee!! He called me up and asked me if I wanted to have dinner with him this weekend. You’ll of course get an update on Sunday 😉 I’m already panicking a little… What to wear??
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Mr. Coffee

Stod i kø til at få kaffe i morges, og var egentlig lidt sur over det tog så lang tid. Men da jeg vendte mig om for at se efter min veninde som jeg skulle mødes med, opdagede jeg at lige bag mig stod der en virkelig lækker fyr i tyverne og smilte til mig. Blev lidt rød i hoved, men besluttede mig hurtigt for ikke at lade sådan en chance forbigå sig. Skrev mit nummer ned, fik min kaffe og stak ham papiret det i hånden inden jeg gik ud. Kunne se han var lidt forvirret, hvorefter det gik op for ham hvad det var, og han smilte. Er spændt på om jeg skal på date en af dagene 😉

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I was standing in line at the coffee shop, and was kind of annoyed by the fact that I was running late. But as I looked over my shoulder to see if my friend, that I was meeting, was there, I realized that the cute guy behind me was smiling at me. I blushed for a bit, but then I decided not to let a chance like that pass. So I wrote my number down, got my coffee, and gave him the piece of paper on my way out. I could see that he was a bit confused at first, but then he figured out  what it was, and he smiled. I wonder if I’m going out on a date one of these days? 😉 

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