What about the roses?

I kender det, vi kender det… ja sådan en som G burde have skrevet bogen om det! Når vi finder en fyr, som vi måske ellers godt kan lide, har vi nogle gange tendens til at blive lidt for perfektionistiske. Når man pludseligt får noget af alt den opmærksomhed og anerkendelse, som man har arbejdet så hårdt for, kan det ske, at man faktisk bare bliver mere krævende. Man begynder at tænke over de små ting, som måske ikke er helt så perfekte hos fyren. Den samme fyr som man synes var Gud, da han ikke skrev tilbage. Man bliver i tvivl, om man overhoved orker det. Der kommer mere om det i løbet af de næste par dage, men her er det: hvorfor fokuserer så meget på tornene. Hvad med roserne?

N & G

You know it, we know it… someone like G could have written the book about it! When we find a guy, that we might actually like, we sometimes tend to become perfectionists. When you suddenly receive some of that attention and recognition that you’ve been craving and working so hard for, you turn around and become somewhat demanding. You start thinking about all the little things, that the guy isn’t doing well enough. The same guy we thought to be a God when he didn’t text us back. You even consider if you should bother spending your time with someone so “flawed”. We’ll come back to it over the next couple of days, but here it is: why always focus on the thorns. What about the roses?

N & G

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