Sex vs. respect

Vi har længe tænkt over hvad der skal til for at få noget respekt fra vores mænd. Nogle synes at de bliver behandlet virkeligt billigt, og at det hele kun handler om sex. Det holder jo ikke hvis man prøver at bygge et forhold op. Vi må jo indrømme at der virkelig findes nogle idioter derude (we should know) men nogle gange skal man altså lige kigge sig selv en gang i spejlet og se hvad man udstråler. Det er ikke fordi vi ikke er fans af “one-night-stands” ;), men man når også bare til et punkt, hvor man gerne vil have noget fast. Vi har haft det lidt sjovt med det her indlæg, så her kommer nogle meget stereotype bud på dem der gør det helt forkert, hvis de gerne vil have et forhold.

For a while now, we’ve wondered how to earn respect from men. Many girls find themselves in a situation, where they’re treated poorly, and the so called “relationship” is all about the sex. We’ve got to admit that there are some idiots out there (we would know), but sometimes, you’ve just got to look yourself in the mirror one extra time, to discover, that your attitude, might be the one that got him to treat you like a slut in the first place. It’s not that we’re not fans of the infamous one-night-stand ;), but in the long run, we all want something steady, don’t we? We’ve had quite some fun writing this post, and here are some stereotyped girls, who we think are almost solely responsible for their failed relationships.

The dumb blonde

Man skal altså ikke gøre sig dumere end man er for at please en fyr. Det kan da godt være at de synes det er sød først, men de bliver trætte af det i længden, og det gør i også! For sådan en facade er svær at opretholde. Selvom vi nok alle sammen har gjort det i en eller anden grad på tidspunkt, så er det en rigtig dårlig ide. Vi har i hvert fald fundet ud af at det ikke er det der giver de lange forhold.
Fyrer kan nemlig godt lide kloge piger! Det gør det da det nemmere for dem at introducerer jer til venner og familie, hvis i er i stand til at sætte mere end to rigtig sætninger sammen 🙂 Så vær ikke bange for at lade jeres iq være en del af jeres charme 😉

You shouldn’t pretend to be stupid, to please a guy. He might think that it’s kind of cute to begin with, he might even like the fact that he obviously superior to you, but he’ll get tired of it in the long run, and so will you! It’s really hard to keep up the pretending, and even though most of us have tried something like it at one point, we’ve all discovered that it creates a really lousy foundation for a relationship.
And remember, that guys actually like intelligent girls! Yes, they can get a little intimidated if you IQ is through the roof, but don’t be afraid of letting it be part of you charm 😉 Just think about it for an instance. It’s a very sophisticated trait , and you might just be the type of girl a guy isn’t afraid of introducing his friend or parents to!

The “I’m wearing no clothes/underwear under this outfit ” girl

Hele ideen om at den bedste score replik er “jeg har ikke noget undertøj på” gør sig altså kun gældende, hvis man er ude efter et hurtigt knald. Når det er første gang, man møder fyren, så er det virkelig lav standart at lægge ud med. Hvis i ikke objektiverer jer selv, så gør han det heller ikke (i samme grad som han måske ville have gjort ;)).

The whole concept about the pickup line “I’m not wearing any underwear”, should only be reserved for guys your just looking to have a fling with. When you meet a new guys, it’s really low standards to say something like it, if you can even pull it off. You’re objectivising yourself completely, and what’s going to happen next? We’ll tell you: He’s going to do the exact same thing. He’ll see you as an object, a chance of getting laid, and probably nothing more.   


The Cheap one

Dem der er billige er selv uden om at blive behandlet derefter. Det er meget simpelt, når en fyr ser på jer, skal de ikke bare se en krop, de skal gerne se en personlighed. Brug noget tid på at snakke med dem frem for at flirte helt vildt. Det er selvfølgelig alt sammen nemmere hvis man ikke finder sine potentielle kærester i byen, men nogle gange er det altså bare det nemmeste sted at finde dem 😉 Husk på at det hele jo er spildt hvis han ikke gider ringe til jer dagen efter, og hvis i har opført jer lige slutty nok, så ryger i nok direkte ind under “engangs” kategorien hos ham.

A girl who behaves or looks like a skank, will be treated like one. It’s simple, really. When a guy see’s you, he shouldn’t only be seeing your body, but mostly a personality. Pend some time talking to him instead of flirting like crazy all night. Of course, all this is easier if you don’t try to find potential boyfriends under the influence of shots and drinks, but we all have to admit, that it’s usually easier than to ask the guy out for the line at the coffee house. But the important thing is that you’re goal is to make him want to contact you the next day. If your behaviour was really slutty, you’ll probably be filed away as a one-time-thing. 


The one with the dirty partydress

Lidt i tråd med den overstående kender vi alle sammen de piger som har så korte kjoler på at man lige når at tænke “Hun har da vist glemt at tage bukser på” 😉 Hvis man ellers ikke ligner lort, så tiltrækker det jo fyrer som fluer, man skal bare lige tænke på hvorfor. Ja… for i virkeligheden bliver de jo bare tiltrukket af at du er et nemt knald. Man skal huske på at mænd jo kun synes den slags ting er sjove i det korte løb. Han gider da ikke tage dig med i byen eller nogen som helst andre steder hed, hvis du klæder dig så skanky!

Now that we’re already discussing the girls who act like they should be paid for their services, let’s have a closer look at the ones who dress like it. We’ve all seen them at bars. We’re talking about the girls whose dresses are so short, they looked like they forget to put on pants. And yes, guys will be attracted like moths to a flame, but only because she looks like lay. You have to keep in mind, that guys only find that fascinating for a little while. He’ll then realize, that he can’t take her anywhere because of the way she dresses. He’ll get bored and inevitably… move on. 

The “sex on the first date” girl

“Det er ikke sjovt hvis byttet bare ligger sig ned”. Husk det. Helt seriøst! For det er jo jagten de er så vilde med, og i skal sørge for, at når de så endelig fanger jer, at de ikke har lyst til at give slip igen. Så hold benene samlede i noget tid damer! Det er det hele værd 😉

“It’s no fun if the prey just lays down” Seriously, don’t forget that! Because all men like the chase, and you have to make sure than when they eventually catch you, they won’t want to let you go again. So keep your legs together ladies, it’s worth it 😉  

N & G

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